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Helping Your Son Build His Identity in a World of Modern Masculinity
Toxic masculinity, rigid stereotypes, and online influencers—raising a son today can feel overwhelming. Many parents worry about how their boys will build confidence, handle emotions, and shape identity in a culture that pushes extremes. Yet research shows that parents can play a powerful role in guiding boys toward resilience, authenticity, and empathy. In this article, Counsellor Nicholas Smith explores modern masculinity, why the “Man Box” matters, and practical ways you can help your son grow into a balanced and confident man.
The Unspoken Truths About Long-Term Relationships Nobody Warns You About
Long-term love isn’t always butterflies and fireworks—and that’s not a bad thing. From the quiet routines that hold couples together to the unglamorous admin of life, discover the unspoken truths about relationships that Hollywood never tells you with Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr Martha Tara Lee.
Embracing Ikigai, Embracing Present as a Gift
In a world filled with stress and uncertainty, the Japanese philosophy of Ikigai offers a simple compass: live fully in the present. Discover how embracing Ikigai can transform anxiety into clarity, and ordinary routines into sources of joy and meaning with Counsellor, Jumh Tantri.
Healing from Parental Heartache
Parental heartache is one of the most hidden forms of grief. While society speaks openly about break-ups or romantic heartbreak, few acknowledge the deep pain parents feel when their child rejects them, cuts off contact, or is tragically lost. This silence can leave parents carrying invisible wounds, wondering where to turn for healing. In this article, psychologist Ho Shee Wai explores the realities of parental grief, why it hurts so deeply, and how parents can begin the journey of healing from rejection, estrangement, or loss.
The Father Effect: How Working Towards Being a Great Dad Makes You a Better Partner
Fatherhood isn’t just about raising children—it’s about transforming yourself. Discover how everyday parenting moments build the relationship skills that make men better partners with Counsellor, Nicholas Smith.
What Ageing Gracefully Really Looks Like
Ageing isn’t a flaw — it’s a privilege. From your 30s to your 50s and beyond, here’s how to embrace every shift with self-awareness, humour, and grace with Counsellor, Lim Swee Chen.
Parents’ Love Translates into Present Love
The way you love today is no accident — it’s rooted in the love you received yesterday. From affection and presence to boundaries and conflict, our earliest experiences with parents shape the blueprint for our romantic relationships. The good news? You can keep what works, let go of what hurts, and write a new love story for yourself. Find out how with Counsellor, Jumh Tantri.
Building Your R.A.F.T.: A Proven Goodbye Ritual for Smooth Life Transitions
Change, whether planned or unexpected, can stir up a storm of emotions. The R.A.F.T. method—rooted in psychological research—offers a structured way to say goodbye, heal, and move forward with clarity. Learn the four steps with Counsellor, Paula Brunning, to end well and start your next chapter with strength and grace.
Setting Boundaries with Care: How to Say No Without Guilt and Strengthen Your Relationships
Do you feel overwhelmed from always saying yes — even when it drains you? You’re not alone. In this compassionate guide, relationship counselor and clinical sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee shows you why setting boundaries is not selfish but necessary. Learn gentle, practical ways to say no, protect your energy, and strengthen the relationships that truly matter.
Understanding IBS: How Gut Health and Mental Health Are Connected
Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) is more than just a digestive issue — it’s a condition where gut health, mental health, and lifestyle are deeply intertwined. In this blog, Counsellor, Shifan Hu-Couble, explores how the gut-brain connection works, why anxiety and depression often accompany IBS, and what holistic steps — from diet to therapy — can help you manage symptoms and improve your quality of life.
Between Worlds: Finding Yourself in a New Country
Moving abroad is more than a change of address—it’s a profound shift in identity, relationships, and belonging. While it can open doors to growth and adventure, it can also stir up loneliness, grief, and self-doubt. Counsellor, Soolin Choi, explores the emotional landscape of cross-cultural life and how therapy can help you navigate the in-between.
Personality Dynamics on Vacation: How the Big Five Traits Shape Travel Compatibility
Ever wonder why you and your partner vacation so differently? One of you loves wandering back alleys, while the other clings to a strict itinerary. These differences often reflect deep-rooted personality dynamics. Counsellor, Nicholas Smith unpacks how the Big Five personality traits shape your travel styles — and how understanding them can transform trips from conflict zones into opportunities for deeper connection.
Why Making Friends as an Adult Is Hard — And How to Build Real Connections
Feeling lonely as an adult isn’t a failure — it’s a reality many face but rarely discuss. Counsellor, Lim Swee Chen, explores why making friends in adulthood is so hard, and offers practical, hopeful steps to build genuine connections.
Redefining Teen Success: Support Their Growth Without Sacrificing Mental Health
Is your teen chasing success—but struggling silently under the pressure? In a world of high expectations and social comparison, today’s teens need more than just grades to thrive. Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Paula Brunning, explores how parents can support their child’s journey with emotional resilience, healthy communication, and a new definition of success.
Navigating Conflict: A Healthier Approach to Couples' Arguments
Conflict is inevitable in any relationship—but how you handle it can strengthen or weaken your bond. In this post, Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr Martha Tara Lee, explores 10 transformative strategies to help couples communicate with empathy, avoid escalating fights, and deepen their connection even through disagreement.
Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Step-by-Step Healing for Trauma, PTSD & Imposter Syndrome
Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET) isn’t just for PTSD—it can also help untangle imposter syndrome, phobias, and complex trauma. In this guide, discover how this structured, story-based method helps weave fragmented experiences into a coherent life narrative, fostering integration, resilience, and renewed self-worth with Counsellor, Jumh Tantri.
Understanding Boundaries: A Guide for Healthy Relationships
Healthy boundaries are the foundation of fulfilling relationships and personal well-being. Yet many of us struggle to recognise when our boundaries are too porous—or too rigid. In this guide, Counsellor, Paula Brunning, explores the three main boundary styles, how they affect your relationships, and how you can move toward healthier, more assertive communication.
Autism in Adults: Recognising the Signs and Challenges Beyond Childhood
Autism isn’t just a childhood condition—it continues into adulthood, often unnoticed or misunderstood. Many adults live with undiagnosed autism, navigating daily challenges like social fatigue, sensory overload, emotional regulation issues, and identity confusion. In this blog, Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Lim Swee Chen helps identify common adult autism traits, debunks myths, and offers compassionate next steps for self-understanding and support.
Helping Pre-teens and Teens Open Up: How Parents Can Help Support Emotional Expression
Getting teens to talk about their emotions can feel impossible, but it doesn’t have to be. In this blog, Counsellor Nicholas Smith explores simple, science-backed tools—like the feelings wheel and “I feel” statements—that help young people open up. Learn how to guide your child through emotional confusion and foster healthier conversations at home, especially in high-pressure environments like Singapore.
Why People Stay in Unhealthy Relationships and How to Get Out of It?
Why do smart, capable people stay in toxic relationships? The answer is rarely simple. Unhealthy relationship patterns often trace back to early emotional wounds, trauma, and unmet needs. In this blog, Counsellor & Psychotherapist, Shifan Hu-Couble, explores the hidden psychological roots of staying, the grief of leaving, and how survivors can begin to reclaim their lives and rebuild from within.