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Rejection Sensitivity in ADHD, Autism, Depression & Borderline Personality Disorder: Why It Hurts So Much—and What You Can Do About It
Why can a delayed text, neutral expression or small piece of feedback feel so painful? Rejection sensitivity is often dismissed as “being too sensitive”, but it can arise through different pathways in ADHD, autism, depression and borderline personality disorder. Director and Registered Psychologist Ho Shee Wai explores what may lie behind these reactions, how they affect everyday life and what can help.
Why Men Suddenly Stop Trying in Relationships (It's Often Not What You Think)
Why do some men stop trying in dating or relationships? It is often assumed to be anger, entitlement, or a loss of interest. Yet for many men, emotional withdrawal develops more quietly through repeated rejection, diminished confidence, and the growing sense that effort no longer leads to connection. Sex Therapist and Relationship Counsellor Dr Martha Tara Lee explains how understanding these different pathways helps distinguish healthy self-protection from emotional avoidance, controlling behaviour, and patterns of disengagement that can ultimately harm relationships.
Unstacking Grief in Third Culture Kids: Understanding Layered Loss
Repeated moves, interrupted friendships and changing ideas of home can leave Third Culture Kids carrying losses that others may not recognise. Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Paula Brunning, explores how the Unstacking Method helps Adult TCKs and internationally mobile families understand layered grief, build emotional safety and make sense of experiences accumulated across countries and life stages.
"I Don’t Feel Like Myself Anymore": Unpacking Identity Loss in Adulthood
Feeling disconnected or burnt out? Explore why you don't feel like yourself anymore and how counselling in Singapore can help you navigate life transitions.
When Moving Abroad Costs You Your Identity: The Reality for Expat Partners
Moving abroad for a partner’s career can bring exciting opportunities, but it can also lead to lost identity, loneliness and relationship strain. This article explores the often-overlooked experience of accompanying partners and how couples can protect the well-being of both people during relocation.
Is Your Teen Addicted to Gaming? When It’s More Than Just a Game
When a teenager’s gaming starts affecting sleep, school, mood, or family relationships, it may be more than just a screen time issue. In this article, Zachariah Lail explores how problematic gaming can become part of a wider family pattern, and why rebuilding trust, communication, and connection often matters as much as setting limits.
I’ve Always Felt Different. Could It Be Autism or ADHD?
Many adults spend years feeling different, overwhelmed or out of step with others. Counsellor, Lim Swee Chen, explores how autism and ADHD can show up in adulthood, why they are often missed, and when it may be worth seeking professional support.
Why Good People Sometimes Hurt the People They Love
People do not always hurt the ones they love because they care less. Often, they are reacting from old survival patterns, emotional triggers, stress or shame. Counsellor, Ben Ang, explains why understanding these patterns can help couples move from blame to repair.
What Is Intensive Interaction? How Non-Verbal Connection Supports Autism, Special Needs, and Relationships
Many people assume communication begins with words, but meaningful connection often starts much earlier. Intensive Interaction is a relationship-based approach that uses shared attention, body language, sounds, and emotional attunement to build trust and communication, particularly for individuals with autism and complex communication needs. In this article, Integrative Psychotherapist, Calista Goh-Therond, explores what Intensive Interaction is, why behaviour is communication, and how its principles can strengthen relationships between children, teenagers, adults, parents, partners, and caregivers.
Independent, Successful — and Uninterested in Sex
Can someone be independent, successful, and simply lose interest in sex? Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr Martha Tara Lee, explores why low sexual desire is not always a problem to fix, but may reflect changing priorities, autonomy, or emotional self-protection—and how to tell the difference.
Complex PTSD (C-PTSD): Symptoms, Causes, Signs and How Healing Is Possible
Some wounds come from a single moment, while others are shaped by years of emotional neglect, criticism or unsafe relationships. Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) helps explain why chronic trauma can continue to affect emotions, identity and relationships long after the danger has passed. Integrative Therapist, Calista Goh-Therond, explains why understanding these patterns is often the first step towards healing.
Overcoming the Reluctance to Seek Child Counselling in Singapore
When your child is struggling, the instinct to protect them is fierce, but sometimes it manifests as a quiet hesitation to seek professional help. If you are feeling guilty, anxious, or reluctant about sending your child to therapy, you are not alone. Discover how to deconstruct the good parent myth and embrace a collaborative, empowering new perspective on emotional care.
The Expat Success Trap: Why Successful Expats Can Still Feel Stressed and Lonely
Living abroad can look like a dream from the outside, but many expatriates quietly struggle with stress, burnout, loneliness and self-doubt. Discover why success overseas sometimes comes with hidden emotional costs—and how redefining success can support better mental wellbeing with Psychologist & Counsellor, Ewelina Sawicka.
Unspoken Expectations in Marriage: Why Couples Keep Arguing
Many couples believe their biggest problems are about money, chores, intimacy, or parenting. In reality, these conflicts are often driven by something less visible: unspoken expectations in marriage. When partners assume the other person should "just know" what they need, disappointment and repeated arguments can follow. Understanding where these expectations come from is often the first step towards building a healthier and more connected relationship.
When Motherhood Meets Anxiety: Understanding Postpartum OCD and Finding Hope
Becoming a mother can bring immense joy, but it can also trigger unexpected fears that feel confusing and frightening. If you are experiencing distressing intrusive thoughts, overwhelming anxiety, or a constant need to check and seek reassurance after the birth of your baby, you are not alone. Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Paula Brunning, explains how understanding postpartum OCD is the first step towards recovery, helping you recognise that these thoughts do not define you and that effective, evidence-based treatment is available.
Are You Addicted? Hidden Behaviours That Quietly Shape Modern Life
Many people assume addiction only refers to drugs, alcohol or gambling. Yet some of the most powerful dependencies are hidden in plain sight—constant scrolling, relentless overworking, obsessive productivity or an overwhelming need for control. In this blog, Marriage & Family Therapist, Zachariah Lail, explores how these behaviours can reflect deeper relational and family patterns, and how contextual therapy helps uncover the underlying dynamics to create meaningful, lasting change.
Why Intimacy Often Fades After Having Children
Many couples notice this gradually. Conversations become practical. Physical affection becomes functional. Parenting takes priority, and the relationship slowly shifts from partnership to co-management. There may still be care, stability, and teamwork — yet emotional intimacy and desire quietly begin to fade. Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr Martha Tara Lee, discuss how to reverse the trend.
Growing Up Between Worlds: How Moving to Singapore Affects Expat Children Emotionally
Many expatriate children appear to adjust well on the surface while quietly struggling underneath. Parents often notice changes only later — withdrawal, anxiety, emotional outbursts, academic stress, or difficulty fitting in socially. These reactions are more common than many families realise. Relocation affects children differently depending on age, personality, and previous experiences. Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Lim Swee Chen, explains why early support can make the transition significantly easier.
Why We Feel Lonely Even Around People: Understanding Emotional Disconnection
Feeling lonely does not always mean being physically alone. Many people feel emotionally disconnected even while surrounded by colleagues, family, social media, or busy schedules. Marriage & Family Therapist, Zachariah Lail, explores why loneliness happens, how modern life quietly deepens emotional isolation, and what helps people rebuild genuine human connection.
When Patience Becomes Self-Abandonment in Relationships: How to recognise the difference — and why it matters for emotional wellbeing
Many people stay in emotionally painful relationships not because they lack love, but because they slowly lose connection with themselves in the process. Patience can be healthy and grounding — but when it comes at the cost of your emotional wellbeing, it may become self-abandonment instead. In this article, Psychotherapist Calista Goh-Therond explores the subtle but important difference between the two, and how recognising it can help you build healthier boundaries, stronger self-respect, and more emotionally safe relationships.