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Expatriate Parenting: Raising your Children in a New Country
Moving your family to Singapore as an expatriate can feel like a dream, until the honeymoon fades and real parenting begins. Without grandparents or familiar friends you carry the invisible work of helping kids feel safe, seen, and settled. Let’s explore how how you can best support your family during the transition.
Does My Child Need an Autism Assessment? How Psychologists Get Clarity (Including ADOS)
Most parents don’t wake up thinking, “I should get an autism assessment.” They wake up thinking, “Something doesn’t feel quite right.” Whether it’s delayed communication, emotional outbursts, or a child who seems bright but socially lost, many parents spend months wondering whether to wait or seek help. An autism assessment isn’t about rushing to a label — it’s about understanding how your child experiences the world and what support may help. In this article, psychologist Ho Shee Wai explains how clinicians assess autism and where tools like ADOS fit in.
Breathe for Calm: Family Emotional Health
In today’s fast-paced world, many children and parents feel overwhelmed, anxious, and constantly “on edge.” The good news is that calm can begin with something as simple as a breath. Counsellor & Parenting Coach introduces easy, science-based breathing techniques families can use together to strengthen emotional regulation, reduce stress, and build lifelong resilience.
Modeling Holiday Priorities: How Parents Can Create Calm, Connection & Meaning for Their Kids
The holiday season promises joy, connection, and festive magic—but for many parents, it also brings overstimulation, expectations, and an endless to-do list. Children don’t learn holiday values from what we tell them; they learn from what we model. When our behaviour shows connection, gratitude, empathy, and emotional regulation—even in busy seasons—we give our children a powerful roadmap for how to navigate stress and celebrate meaningfully. Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Paula Brunning, discusses what will help you prioritise what truly matters and teach your children the heart of the holidays through your everyday actions.
A Psychological Guide to Creating Christmas Magic for Your Children
Let’s explore the psychology behind why Christmas feels so powerful for children, how to support their emotional needs during the holidays, and how to create that Christmas magic to make this season more meaningful (and manageable) for your whole family.
Asking Questions as a Strategy to Build Cooperation and Problem Solving in Your Child
Instead of telling your child what to do, try asking questions that spark thinking, problem solving, and confidence. Discover how curiosity-based parenting builds independence and strengthens your bond with Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Paula Brunning.
How Do I Motivate My Child or Teen? A Practical Guide
Every child wants to do well—when they feel they can. If your child or teen seems “unmotivated,” it’s usually not laziness. It’s a signal: I’m overwhelmed, unsure, or exhausted. Psychologist, Ho Shee Wai offers calm, practical steps to rebuild motivation at a pace that actually works—without shouting matches or endless nagging.
Welcoming a New Baby and Preparing Your Toddler for Change
Welcoming a new baby is a joyful milestone, but it can stir a whirlwind of emotions for your toddler and for you. Jealousy, confusion, and regression are common as your child adjusts to sharing your attention. This blog offers practical tips for both the parents and your toddler, to feel seen and secure during this big change.
Healing from Parental Heartache
Parental heartache is one of the most hidden forms of grief. While society speaks openly about break-ups or romantic heartbreak, few acknowledge the deep pain parents feel when their child rejects them, cuts off contact, or is tragically lost. This silence can leave parents carrying invisible wounds, wondering where to turn for healing. In this article, psychologist Ho Shee Wai explores the realities of parental grief, why it hurts so deeply, and how parents can begin the journey of healing from rejection, estrangement, or loss.
The Impact of Screen Time on Childhood Development: What Parents Need to Know
Are screens shaping your child's future? Discover the surprising truth about the impact of screen time on childhood development and physical, emotional, and cognitive well-being. Learn how to strike a balance to promote healthy habits and a positive relationship with technology for a brighter future.
What to Say to Your Toddler When You’re Emotionally Overwhelmed
What we say to our toddlers in moments when our stress peaks and emotions run high can shape their sense of safety, love, and boundaries. Discover alternative phrases to stay grounded and connect with your little one, even when you're feeling overwhelmed.
Little People, Big Emotions: How to Support Your Child’s Emotional Development
Parenting is full of surprises — from joyful milestones to emotional meltdowns over the “wrong” sandwich cut. In this blog, psychologist & parenting coach, Stacey explores why children experience such big emotions, how parents can support them with empathy and calm, and why these moments are essential for raising resilient, emotionally healthy humans.
Redefining Teen Success: Support Their Growth Without Sacrificing Mental Health
Is your teen chasing success—but struggling silently under the pressure? In a world of high expectations and social comparison, today’s teens need more than just grades to thrive. Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Paula Brunning, explores how parents can support their child’s journey with emotional resilience, healthy communication, and a new definition of success.
Work and Parenting Through the Storms: It Takes a Village
Balancing career, family, and identity often leaves parents feeling underwater—but you're not meant to swim alone. In this blog, Psychologist & Parenting Coach, Stacey Lee Henderson explore how building a supportive “village” transforms stress into resilience, helps you weather parenting storms, and redefines success on your own terms.
Parenting Empathy in Children: A Guide to Raising Compassionate and Understanding Kids
Want to raise kind, emotionally intelligent kids? It starts with empathy.
In today’s fast-paced, high-pressure world, teaching children empathy is one of the most powerful gifts a parent can give. Empathy helps kids connect with others, manage their emotions, and build stronger relationships—skills that shape success in life, school, and friendships. In this guide, Psychologist & Parenting Coach, Stacey Lee Henderson, explores how to raise empathetic children using practical, science-backed parenting strategies rooted in emotional intelligence, perspective-taking, and compassionate discipline.
Parent’s Guide to Supporting a Teen Towards Health Seeking
Is your teen refusing therapy, and you’re not sure what to do next? You're not alone. Discover why teens resist mental health support and how you, as a parent, can gently guide them toward help—without conflict or pressure. Learn powerful strategies to foster trust, open communication, and support your teen’s emotional well-being with Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Paula Brunning of The Counselling Place Singapore.
Understanding ADHD and ASD in Teenagers
Parenting a teenager with ADHD or Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) can feel like navigating uncharted territory. While these conditions share some traits, they impact your child’s relationships and behavior in unique ways. Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Lim Swee chen, helps you better understand the differences, debunk myths, and improve your approach to supporting your teen.
Empowering Teens: Essential Life Skills They Need at Every Stage of Development
Navigating adolescence is challenging, but equipping your teen with the right life skills can help them thrive. Discover the key developmental milestones and life skills your teen needs to succeed. Start building a solid foundation for your teen's future today!
The Greatest Gift You Can Give Your Child: Accompanying
Do you know what is the greatest gift you can give your child/teen? Are you spending your time and effort on the wrong things? Learn through counselling how to provide the best love for your child/teen – accompanying.
Navigating the Challenges of Parenting with Visiting In-Laws or Parents
Visiting in-laws or parents can be a recipe for stress! Learn how to navigate the challenges of intergenerational dynamics, differing parenting styles, and boundary issues. Read on to find peace amidst the family gathering.