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Never stop learning with our blog bites. Here, we'll share strategies and insights into counselling, psychotherapy, psychology and common concerns. From relaxation strategies and self-improvement tools to managing anxiety, depression or other mental health concerns, as well as introductions to different therapeutic approaches, we’ve got it all covered!
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Connection as a Couple: Too Close? Too Far? What Is the Appropriate Distance for Us?
Are you and your partner feeling too distant or too entangled? Discover the secret to a healthy, thriving relationship by finding the right balance between independence and togetherness. Learn how interdependency—built on appreciation, communication, and shared growth—can strengthen your bond with Psychologist, Ho Shee Wai.
Navigating Dating After Divorce: Rebounds, Readiness, and Real Connections
Dating after divorce can feel like stepping into another world. Some jump in quickly and end up in rebounds, while others avoid dating altogether, worried about getting hurt again. The truth? There’s no single “right time” to start. What matters is understanding your readiness, learning from the past, and approaching dating as a chance for growth and authentic connection. This guide by sex therapist & relationship counsellor, Dr Martha Tara Lee will help you navigate dating after divorce with confidence—whether you’re seeking companionship, fun, or a long-term partner.
When Silence Isn’t Peace: Navigating Emotional Withdrawal in Relationships
In the middle of an argument, one partner shuts down—arms folded, eyes downcast, words cut off. Silence fills the room, but it’s not the peaceful kind. It’s a heavy pause that leaves both partners feeling hurt, rejected, and unheard. This is emotional withdrawal, also known as stonewalling, and while it may feel protective in the moment, it can erode trust and intimacy over time. Here’s what emotional withdrawal looks like, why it happens, and how couples can break the cycle together.
The Unspoken Truths About Long-Term Relationships Nobody Warns You About
Long-term love isn’t always butterflies and fireworks—and that’s not a bad thing. From the quiet routines that hold couples together to the unglamorous admin of life, discover the unspoken truths about relationships that Hollywood never tells you with Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr Martha Tara Lee.
The Father Effect: How Working Towards Being a Great Dad Makes You a Better Partner
Fatherhood isn’t just about raising children—it’s about transforming yourself. Discover how everyday parenting moments build the relationship skills that make men better partners with Counsellor, Nicholas Smith.
Setting Boundaries with Care: How to Say No Without Guilt and Strengthen Your Relationships
Do you feel overwhelmed from always saying yes — even when it drains you? You’re not alone. In this compassionate guide, relationship counselor and clinical sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee shows you why setting boundaries is not selfish but necessary. Learn gentle, practical ways to say no, protect your energy, and strengthen the relationships that truly matter.
Help! My Partner Has ADHD: How to Understand, Cope, and Strengthen Your Relationship
Living with a partner who has ADHD can feel confusing, exhausting, and sometimes heartbreaking. You may find yourself wondering: is this forgetfulness, distraction, or impulsivity because of ADHD — or do they just not care? In this blog, psychologist Ho Shee Wai unpacks what ADHD really looks like in relationships, what’s reasonable to expect, and how couples can move from frustration to teamwork and connection.
Navigating Conflict: A Healthier Approach to Couples' Arguments
Conflict is inevitable in any relationship—but how you handle it can strengthen or weaken your bond. In this post, Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr Martha Tara Lee, explores 10 transformative strategies to help couples communicate with empathy, avoid escalating fights, and deepen their connection even through disagreement.
Why People Stay in Unhealthy Relationships and How to Get Out of It?
Why do smart, capable people stay in toxic relationships? The answer is rarely simple. Unhealthy relationship patterns often trace back to early emotional wounds, trauma, and unmet needs. In this blog, Counsellor & Psychotherapist, Shifan Hu-Couble, explores the hidden psychological roots of staying, the grief of leaving, and how survivors can begin to reclaim their lives and rebuild from within.
Navigating the Digital Divide in Relationships
In today’s hyper-connected world, many couples silently suffer from a growing emotional gap fueled by digital distractions. Sex therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, explores how habits like doomscrolling and bedtime procrastination are not just tech issues—but deeper emotional signals affecting intimacy and communication. This powerful guide reveals how you can reclaim connection, set tech-free boundaries, and restore presence in your relationship with proven therapeutic tools and mindful strategies.
Are You Deeply Connected to Your Partner?
Want to reignite the spark in your relationship? Regular, meaningful conversations can make all the difference! Research shows that couples who engage in deep discussions weekly experience significantly higher relationship satisfaction. Discover how to ask the right questions, listen actively, and build emotional intimacy with your partner.
Handling Relationship Burnout: 7 Signs and Solutions
Relationship burnout is a silent killer of love. Emotional disconnection, accumulating resentment, and decline in physical intimacy are just a few signs that your relationship is suffering. Learn the 7 signs of relationship burnout and discover practical solutions to reignite your connection and save your relationship.
Love vs Desire: Understanding the Key Differences for Healthy Relationships
Discover the key differences between love and desire and how they shape your relationships. Learn how balancing both emotions can lead to deeper connection and lasting passion. Explore expert insights and practical tips from a registered psychologist to nurture your relationship today.
The Unspoken Stress of Wedding Planning
Wedding planning stress getting you down? From societal pressures to parental expectations, learn how to manage the unspoken stress of planning your special day.
Exploring Non-Monogamy: What You Need to Know
Discover the world of non-monogamy, from polyamory to open relationships. Expert guidance from Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Sex & Relationship Therapist, helps you navigate consent, boundaries, and communication. Learn how to create fulfilling, consensual relationships that work for you.
What is your LOVE LANGUAGE?
Ever wonder why your partner's gestures of love sometimes miss the mark? Discover the hidden key to meaningful relationships. Learn how understanding your unique "love language" can strengthen your intimacy and connection
From Burnout to Bliss: How to Reignite Your Sexual Connection When Life Gets in the Way
Are you exhausted, stressed, and disconnected from your partner? Learn how burnout affects your sex drive and relationship, and how practical strategies can help you manage stress.
How to Create a Relationship Vision Board: Aligning Goals and Dreams as a Couple
Do you struggle to align your goals and dreams as a couple? Learn how a Relationship Vision Board can help move you to a common destiny.
The Silent Treatment in Relationships
The silent treatment can be a relationship's ticking time bomb, hiding deeper issues like resentment, anger, and unresolved conflicts. But what drives this toxic behavior? And how can you break free from its suffocating grip?
Understanding Trust Issues
Broken trust can leave lasting scars, making it challenging to form meaningful connections. Discover how childhood trauma, past relationships, and societal pressures shape your trust, and learn effective strategies to rebuild trust in yourself and others.