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Parenting, New Parents, Work Life Balance The Counselling Place Parenting, New Parents, Work Life Balance The Counselling Place

Work and Parenting Through the Storms: It Takes a Village

Balancing career, family, and identity often leaves parents feeling underwater—but you're not meant to swim alone. In this blog, Psychologist & Parenting Coach, Stacey Lee Henderson explore how building a supportive “village” transforms stress into resilience, helps you weather parenting storms, and redefines success on your own terms.

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Understanding Boundaries: A Guide for Healthy Relationships

Healthy boundaries are the foundation of fulfilling relationships and personal well-being. Yet many of us struggle to recognise when our boundaries are too porous—or too rigid. In this guide, Counsellor, Paula Brunning, explores the three main boundary styles, how they affect your relationships, and how you can move toward healthier, more assertive communication.

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Autism, ASD, Adult Autism, Special Needs The Counselling Place Autism, ASD, Adult Autism, Special Needs The Counselling Place

Autism in Adults: Recognising the Signs and Challenges Beyond Childhood

Autism isn’t just a childhood condition—it continues into adulthood, often unnoticed or misunderstood. Many adults live with undiagnosed autism, navigating daily challenges like social fatigue, sensory overload, emotional regulation issues, and identity confusion. In this blog, Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Lim Swee Chen helps identify common adult autism traits, debunks myths, and offers compassionate next steps for self-understanding and support.

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Understanding Vaginismus: Causes, Treatment & Hope for Recovery

Vaginismus can feel like an invisible wall—frustrating, painful, and deeply isolating. But you're not alone. In this heartfelt article, Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr. Martha Tara Lee sheds light on what vaginismus really is, why it happens, and how healing is possible. Whether you're just beginning to seek answers or are already on your recovery journey, this guide offers clarity, compassion, and hope.

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Are We Shopping Too Much?

Are you buying things you don’t really need—or can’t afford to ignore a sale? With endless deals on Lazada, Shopee, and every major holiday, it's easy for shopping to shift from necessity to habit. Counsellor, Lim Swee Chen, explore the psychology of compulsive shopping, its emotional and financial toll, and share practical tips to help you break the cycle of emotional spending. Learn how to build a more mindful relationship with money, belongings, and your emotional well-being.

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Managing a Career Transition

Navigating a career transition? You’re not alone. Whether you're switching industries, stepping into a new role, or facing an unexpected job change, career transitions can be emotionally and mentally demanding. More than a resume update, this journey requires self-reflection, resilience, and support. In this guide, Counsellor & Career Coach, Paula Brunning, share research-backed strategies to help you manage stress, stay grounded, and thrive through professional change—while preserving your wellbeing along the way.

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Parenting Empathy in Children: A Guide to Raising Compassionate and Understanding Kids

Want to raise kind, emotionally intelligent kids? It starts with empathy.
In today’s fast-paced, high-pressure world, teaching children empathy is one of the most powerful gifts a parent can give. Empathy helps kids connect with others, manage their emotions, and build stronger relationships—skills that shape success in life, school, and friendships. In this guide, Psychologist & Parenting Coach, Stacey Lee Henderson, explores how to raise empathetic children using practical, science-backed parenting strategies rooted in emotional intelligence, perspective-taking, and compassionate discipline.

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Navigating the Digital Divide in Relationships

In today’s hyper-connected world, many couples silently suffer from a growing emotional gap fueled by digital distractions. Sex therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, explores how habits like doomscrolling and bedtime procrastination are not just tech issues—but deeper emotional signals affecting intimacy and communication. This powerful guide reveals how you can reclaim connection, set tech-free boundaries, and restore presence in your relationship with proven therapeutic tools and mindful strategies.

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Parent’s Guide to Supporting a Teen Towards Health Seeking

Is your teen refusing therapy, and you’re not sure what to do next? You're not alone. Discover why teens resist mental health support and how you, as a parent, can gently guide them toward help—without conflict or pressure. Learn powerful strategies to foster trust, open communication, and support your teen’s emotional well-being with Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Paula Brunning of The Counselling Place Singapore.

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Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal: 9 Steps Toward Healing

Imagine rebuilding your relationship after the trust you once shared has been shattered. Can it be done? The pain of betrayal—whether from infidelity, lies, or emotional deceit—can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be the end. In this blog, Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor, Dr Martha Tara Lee of The Counselling Place Singapore reveal expert strategies to help couples heal and rebuild trust, no matter how deep the hurt. Ready to start the journey? Keep reading to discover how.

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Understanding ADHD and ASD in Teenagers

Parenting a teenager with ADHD or Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) can feel like navigating uncharted territory. While these conditions share some traits, they impact your child’s relationships and behavior in unique ways. Counsellor & Parenting Coach, Lim Swee chen, helps you better understand the differences, debunk myths, and improve your approach to supporting your teen.

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Understanding the People-Pleasing Personality: A Path to Self-Discovery and Support

Do you know someone who always puts others first? People-pleasers appear warm and helpful, but beneath the surface, they often struggle with self-doubt, fear, and a deep need for approval. Discover the hidden challenges of people-pleasing and how seeking support can lead to a more authentic, fulfilling life.

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Valentine's Day is More Than Just a Day for Lovers

Beyond the romantic dinners and flowers of Valentine’s Day lies a rich history and psychological significance. Discover how this holiday can be a celebration of all forms of love and connection, and learn how to reap its benefits for your mental health and social connections

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Handling Relationship Burnout: 7 Signs and Solutions

Relationship burnout is a silent killer of love. Emotional disconnection, accumulating resentment, and decline in physical intimacy are just a few signs that your relationship is suffering. Learn the 7 signs of relationship burnout and discover practical solutions to reignite your connection and save your relationship.

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Starting Fresh: Small Acts of Kindness to Begin Your New Year

Want a New Year's refresh without the daunting resolutions? Try kindness instead. By asking yourself three simple questions each day - Who can I help? Who can I thank? Who can I compliment? - you can unlock a chain reaction of compassion, connection, and joy. Get ready to transform your year, one small act at a time.

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A Mindful New Year: Setting Intentions Over Resolutions

Another year is here, and for many, this means jotting down a list of resolutions. Each year brings a surge of enthusiasm – lose weight, save more, learn a new skill, be kinder to oneself. But what happens when January turns into February, and those resolutions begin to feel like burdens? Maybe you didn’t hit the gym every day, or perhaps you spent a little more than you intended during a holiday sale. Does that make you a failure? 

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