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Husband Cheating

13/4/2017

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​Patricia* come home early one day and was shocked to find that her husband, Larry*, cheating on her with their helper. She feels betrayed, angry, and confused.  She fired the helper and the couple began couple therapy.
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*Not their real name


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Closing Generation Gaps

12/1/2017

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​Some of the most common issues faced by elderly folks at home, with regards to their kids and grandkids are loneliness, lack of sense of purpose, relevance or importance, being disregarded, etc.  While the elderly are trying to still contribute and assert their role in the family, others are not necessarily accepting that.  There may also be generation gaps where each are operating under different perspectives, information, beliefs, and values.  For some, the family had also change the main language of communication so there might also be language barriers.


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Expats Divorce

9/1/2017

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Expats Expatriate divorce marriage therapy
​Divorce is always stressful. In this article, we look at what are some of the unique stresses and challenges that expats face when they are going through a divorce.


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Adult Children of Divorced Parents

26/12/2016

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Adult Children of Divorce: Healing and recovery from your past
With the prevalence divorce rate, many of us are now growing up to be Adult Children of Divorced Parents.  Having gone through the turmoils of our parents' divorce, we now feel the past is over and we can focused on living our own life, cutting our past and leaving it behind.  What we may not be aware of the continued effect of this hurt in our current, present lives as adults.


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Dealing with Holiday Stresses

15/12/2016

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Stress Management: Holiday blues anxiety depression
Yes, that time of the year is upon us again!  The upcoming holiday season can be a time of joy and peace.  However, it can also be extremely stressful.  There is increased pressure to put on a happy face and be merry, and that only makes things more difficult.  Getting ready for the holidays means looking forward to good times, but it also means more work.  It also means more time spent with relatives you may not really care to be with.  Holiday parties, social gatherings, gift giving, family commitments, and personal responsibilities all require attention, planning, and energy - and these stresses can quickly damper your enjoyment of the holidays.
 
But there are several simple things you can do to make the holiday season more relaxing, meaningful, and stress-free for you and your family.  Here are some tips for coping with holiday stresses:


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Helping a Friend or Family Member with Eating Disorder

5/12/2016

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Eating disorder: anorexia, bulimia, binge eating, over-eating, obesity
Seeing our friend or family member going through their struggle with eating disorder is not easy.  Many of us feel helpless and lost in terms of how we can be of support and help to them.  Find out some do's, don'ts, and preventive tips for eating disorder.


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Effective Co-Parenting after Divorce Part 2

1/12/2016

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Parenting: Effective Co-Parenting after Divorce
Having looked at the goals of coparenting, let's look at how we can communicate so as to facilitate this process.


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Coping with Partner with Mental Health Issues

28/11/2016

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Couple Marriage Relationship: Husband or Wife with mental illnesses
In a relationship, couples weather many problems and issues.  For couples where 1 partner is struggling with some mental health issues (e.g., depression, anxiety, Asperger, ADHD, OCD, etc.), they experience additional stressors which other couples do not have to undergo. Many of them, however, do not have awareness about these unique stressors.  Instead, blame would often be attributed to the affected partner personally, i.e., being uncaring, selfish, unkind, or even abusive.


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Effective Co-Parenting after Divorce Part 1

21/11/2016

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Parenting: effective co-parenting after divorce
For those who had divorced, parenting will have its challenges.  However, may be even more difficult is co-parenting your child with other involved adults in the child’s life (be it your ex, new partner, grandparents, etc).  Relationship stress often occurs when one or both people can’t agree on who is responsible for fulfilling what needs the child may have.  Conflicting co-parents are often unable to nurture the child successfully.  Effective co-parenting is required to help your child develop to be holistically-healthy, balanced, socially productive, and reasonably content (happy).
 
To nurture well, the co-parents need to evolve from their conflicts to having clear goals, plans, priorities, “job description” (roles), and rules based on consensus.  Although individual co-parents will have unique goals, most parents will strive for some general, basic long-term co-parenting outcomes.


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    Ms Ho Shee Wai
    Founder &
    Registered Psychologist

    look at some of the topic that arises out of our work with our counselling clients.

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